{ideas} because i have control issues.

i am in the process of drawing out every little detail. not kidding. so last night i finished the table layouts..let me tell you that i do realize i am no graphic artist. i am okay with that..but i think this is good enough to get the point across...

Table Scheme:
15 5' tables. Each will have the following:
1 ivory table cloth that goes to floor
1 centerpiece
8 chairs
8 settings (see below for setting details)
3 white votive candles in clear glass holder
(6 of the 15 tables will have reserved signs - thanks to my fab readers who insisted upon me doing so..you gals are life savers!)

Place Settings:
The following will be set at each chair (8 at each table, 120 total):
1 khaki napkin with pocket fold.
1 large fork
1 large knife
1 sprig of rosemary


Cocktail Table Scheme:
5 tall tables. Each will have the following:
1 ivory table cloth that goes to floor
1 khaki tie halfway between tabletop and floor
1 centerpiece (budvase - smaller than the large table centerpieces)
1 white votive candle in a clear glass holder


is anyone else out there as crazy as i am -- taking drastic measures to ensure fewer miscommunications?